Sunday, October 1, 2017

How To Deal With These Five Kinds Of Neighbors

Not everyone know their neighbors these days and some if not most people can live in an apartment building or any house for that matter for a long time and not know anybody at all. But sometimes there will be instances that you will be in contact with them especially when you are in close proximity of each other and there is a big possibility that when you come in contact with them, you're just not going to click; it can be you, it can be them or both but whatever it is, here are the 5 most common kinds of neighbors and how you can deal with them.

Home Destroyers

They may be friendly enough but they have a rusting jeep in all its glory in their front yard and they couldn't be bothered to mow the lawn, in short their area is chaos and not a beautiful one so how do you deal with them?
Communicate. It's the only way; politely ask them to clean their surroundings because fighting with them will only result to unresolve issues but calmly explaining that you all have the duty to keep your surrounding presentable. Always ask first in a nice way but when you've done everything in your part and still nothing happened, resort to filing a formal complaint if it applies.

Neighbors With Anger Management Problems

You wouldn't want to cross this type of neighbor because a harmless gesture may irk them. The best way to handle said neighbor is to stay out of his way because they're not afraid to commit a crime, provoked or not but if you have done nothing wrong and they're really getting on your nerves or they harrass you in any way then you might want to file a complaint to the authorities.

Your Rich Next Door Neighbor

You may be living an extravagant life but your neighbors does it so much better and you're feeling a little jealous of all the attention they're getting from the community because they just bought a yacht and will be travelling the whole world. How to deal with this? Acceptance; it's not that they're better or more intelligent that's why they're earning more but sometimes you just have to thank yourself for what you have accomplished and be happy with it because not all material things equate to happiness.

Quirky Neighbors

So you just want a peaceful afternoon in your backyard to enjoy a glass of lemonade or two and have a good chat with your wife but here comes your wacky neighbors, ready to tell you all kinds of out of this world ideas and just wouldn't leave when all you want to do is enjoy your day off and you're not sure if you want to shoo them out of the house or listen to whatever they're saying because you still want to be polite. So how do you handle them? Well, nobody has the right to suddenly barge into your house unless you are really good friends and you both know that they are allowed to enter your house anytime so when someone does this especially when said neighbors are touching all your stuffs without permission and opening the fridge, call the cops and press charges.

Your Complex Neighbors

Just about anyone who gives you a hard time are called difficult neighbors and the best way to handle them  is to be friendly and willing to reach out because often times, things can be resolved in the simplest way possible. And be clear of what you're aiming at. Go straight to the point and tell them what's bothering you because they won't be able to guess.

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